PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

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Enhance your standard of living and personal lifestyle. Adolescence is the time of transition from a child to adult. physical change occurs as the body grows this leads many teenagers to develop worries about their changing size, weight and shape. The personal development is must necessary for the growth in any aspects of life, body and your behavior. The standard of living shows your lifestyle quality. Respect is the key of all locks. We have often heard, “give respect and take respect”. How you treat people is also a very important part of your personality, it defines your personality! Fitness is the first source of personal development. Keep yourself fit and you will feel confident. Try to communicate through a fluent, perfect and sharp language that will boost your confidence. you can also learn other languages to enhance your language skills. It will be very beneficial for you. Dress yourself in a bold and confident manner that suits you it can be in simple also, but ensure you are comfortable and confident in that attire. Because first appearance is the last appearance. And mostly people judge you on these factors only. If you start understanding yourself and work on it accordingly, things will seem to be simpler. The habit of accepting and learning new things is also an important part of personal development. Keep a habit of reading this will increase your knowledge. You need to grow physically and mentally. have good ethics in your life. You are the creator of yourself. Design yourself the best way possible. Self-respect defines your eternal love. At various stages in your development as teenagers, you need to take conscious steps to enhance your personalities. Each individual has their own unique personality, i.e.., how they see things; how they react to situations; their attitudes and behavior.
It is also observed that most teenagers do not realize the important of personality development and become careless with their lives. If you develop a good personality, it attracts people to you. According to statistics 1 out 10 people have personality disorder, many are not severe and many don’t realize about it. 

- Maintain a Positive Outlook to Life

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As you develop as a teenager, this is one important virtue to cultivate in your personality. You should be always optimistic i.e.., you should have a positive attitude towards things. Many times, your expectation may become your reality. As a teenager, you need to know that you are in the most active stage of your life and it is what you permit that happens. If you see success, you will become successful. If you expect good things, you will surely receive them. If you see academic success, you will do well academically guaranteed. What you constantly think, is what you become in your life. Your mindset is key for the achievements as a teenager, so do all you can to cultivate a positive mindset or better futuristic vision. 

- Develop Good Habits (Such As Reading)

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Habits are easy to form if we try practice them regularly. It  will take some time  for you to form a habit either good or bad. Habits like daily reading, fitness etc habits can develops a strong personality. Anything becomes your habit if you try to work on it on regular basis. Good habits help you to be disciplined in life and discipline helps you to be focused in life. Habits is also a part of fitness today, because good habits like jogging, going to gym helps you to stay fit and healthy.

-Surround yourself with Positive People

Yes! The people around you are your surroundings and your surroundings do affect your personality. It is necessary to understand about your peoples or friends around you. It is important that you pay good attention to your surroundings because your success or failure may get influenced by these factors. and ensure you avoid pacifistic people by all means. Negativity brings unhappiness. So, decide from today not to associate with negative people. You have the right to choose your friends and nobody can force himself or herself  as your friend. Those who had friends who have no vision would eventually become failures tomorrow. You need to be careful of that type of influences you allow in your life. 
 Make friends who force you to level up in your fields.so surround yourself with positive and motivating peoples.

- Create your future

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As a teenager, what are you seeing about your future? Do you have any vision or goal for your life? If you have not started, begin to develop a picture of your future and make a goal. What you do today affects your tomorrow. You should create mental pictures of what you want to achieve and become in the future. It is this picture that motivates you to move ahead in life even in difficult phase of life. This picture must be created inside your mind first before trying to reflect it outside. What you carry in your inner mind determines what you will experience.  As I always say write everything on a paper what you want to do. Your future is in your hands. Make it happen.

- Make Positive Affirmations

The types of words you speak determine if you will succeed or fail. Learn to speak positive words to yourself and never use negative words. Your actions and emotion are determined by how you feel about yourself. If you are in difficult situation, always try to find a solution ,believe in yourself and always have a positive affirmation. Your words act like water your life. So be careful what you say about yourself. If there is no encouragement from anyone, you should learn to encourage yourself and continue moving towards the achievement of your goals in life.

-Be focused in life

Whatever you are focused on achieving in your life is achievable. If you want to succeed, never consider failure as an option. Failure is a mindset that you create in your mind. Do not live your life without a reason. Create a reason for living as this will be your motivation for each day when you awake. As a teenager, you have to be focused on what you want to achieve in your life.

-Involve your parents in your life

As you grow up, you may feel that you know it all but it is important that you understand that life is very complex and sometimes, we all need guidance. Don’t be rude to your parents. Allow them to give you suggestions on how to tackle certain issues that you may find difficult to handle. Their experiences and journey through life qualifies them  to be perfect counselor. Teenagers often like to do things by themselves and regret later on it. You need to be friendly and open to your parents, they can be your best friend. Your parents will always stand for you in anytime of the life circumstances. So simply involve parents in your life. Dont keep them away from you. Respect and love them truly.

I believe that these few ideas have shared would help you to every teenager or any people to learn the importance of personality development and significant role of teenage life and helps you on your journey to get success.

Thinking and to be Learned:

• Learn more defined work habits.

• Show more concern about future school and work plans.

• Be better able to give reasons for their own choices, including about what is right or wrong.

• Have more ability for complex thought.

• Be better able to express feelings through talking.

• Develop a stronger sense of right and wrong.

Children in this age group might:

• Show more concern about body image, looks, and clothes.

• Focus on themselves; going back and forth between high expectations and lack of confidence.

• Experience more moodiness.

• Show more interest in and influence by peer group.

• Express less affection toward parents; sometimes might seem rude or short-tempered.

• Feel stress from more challenging school work.

• Develop eating problems.

• Feel a lot of sadness or depression, which can lead to poor grades at school, alcohol or drug use, unsafe sex, and other problems.

AUTHOR :- AASHISH PRASAD


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